A video clip from MENtality, a podcast hosted by popular media personality Ebuka Obi-Uchendu, has gone viral after he shared an interesting perspective on how men sustain their friendships compared to women
Ebuka said a female friend once pointed out that men often maintain the same set of friends for years, not necessarily because of deep emotional bonding, but because they “don’t stress one another.”
According to her, male friendships survive on simple banter, football conversations, and the occasional birthday message. There’s no pressure to overshare, no constant need for emotional check-ins, and no expectations of dramatic support.
She contrasted this with women, who tend to bond quickly by sharing heartbreak stories, praying together, exchanging intense emotional support—yet sometimes fall out abruptly over small issues like a forgotten birthday, a delayed call, or a misunderstood comment.
Her observation sparked a major debate on the show:
Do men remain friends because they avoid emotional vulnerability, or are their relationships simply more laid-back yet just as strong?
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